I loved Star Trek as a child. The ships and the strange worlds were the obvious draw, along with the sense that the universe was enormous and mostly unexplored. What stayed with me, though, was something I couldn’t have put into words back then. Star Trek assumed that humanity would grow up. In its future we hadn’t only invented warp drive. We had stopped organizing our lives around fighting each other and pointed the ambition of an entire civilization outward.

When I heard this week that Patrick Stewart had died, that is what I found myself thinking about. I thought less about his stage career or his films, remarkable as they were, and more about what Jean-Luc Picard meant to a kid who wanted that future to be real.

Most science fiction imagines technology racing ahead while human nature stays put. We build faster ships and better weapons, then fight the same old wars with them. Gene Roddenberry bet on something harder: that people could actually get better. The Federation was never perfect. Its officers disagreed, made mistakes, and sometimes acted out of fear. But the direction was clear, and the show kept turning that optimism back on its audience by putting our own problems on screen in costume.

In 1968, with interracial relationships still openly contested in parts of America, the original series aired a kiss between Kirk and Uhura. The plot forced it through alien coercion, but it was on network television, and that mattered. “Let That Be Your Last Battlefield” gave us two men, each half black and half white, who hated each other because the colors fell on opposite sides of their faces. To an outsider the difference was absurd. To them it had destroyed a planet. When the Enterprise passed to Picard two decades later, that habit of holding a mirror up to the present came aboard with him. “Symbiosis” showed a society kept dependent through addiction, which is really a story about who profits from keeping people desperate. In “Unification,” Spock worked toward reconciliation between Vulcans and Romulans knowing he might never see it, a reminder that peace is usually built by people who won’t be around for the signing.

The episode that has aged most strikingly is “The Measure of a Man.” When Commander Bruce Maddox wants to dismantle Data for research, the question isn’t whether the science would be valuable. It’s whether Data gets to say no. Is he a person or property, and who decides? As a boy I watched it as science fiction. Today I work on how AI systems are governed, and it reads less like fiction every year.

Rewatching the old episodes now, much of the technology no longer looks futuristic. Kirk’s communicator is a toy next to the phone in my pocket. We talk to computers and expect answers, carry tablets everywhere, and hold conversations across languages with real-time translation. There is no warp drive and no transporter, but the distance has shrunk in ways nobody in 1966, or even in 1987, would have believed.

What troubles me is how lopsided that progress has been. We got very good at building the tools Star Trek imagined and much worse at building the society that was supposed to use them. We can translate a language instantly and still fail to understand the person speaking it. We can reach anyone on the planet and somehow feel further apart. Maybe that was always going to happen. Engineering problems yield to money, research, and persistence. Human problems ask us to question our own assumptions, and few of us volunteer for that.

I grew up on Kirk, and I loved him. He was charisma and instinct, always first through the door, rarely able to finish an episode with his shirt intact. He was the classic action hero relocated to space.

Picard was something else, and it took me years to understand what. Patrick Stewart played a captain who didn’t need to prove he was the strongest person in the room. He listened. He surrounded himself with people who knew more than he did about their fields and actually let them say so. He asked questions, weighed options, and changed his mind when someone gave him a better argument. Then he decided, and he owned what followed. None of that was weakness. Picard could be stubborn and fierce when it counted. He simply understood that having the power to use force is not the same as having a reason to.

In “The Measure of a Man” he could have treated Data’s case as a matter of Starfleet procedure. He saw the larger question underneath it and took on the institution he served, because he believed its own principles demanded more of it. He won with an argument, not a phaser. In “Darmok,” the universal translator renders every word an alien captain says and conveys none of the meaning. What finally gets through is patience, curiosity, and Picard’s willingness to learn a way of thinking completely unlike his own.

That is the kind of leadership I came to value more the older I got. It doesn’t mean having every answer. It means creating the conditions where the right answer can surface, making the call when it doesn’t, and holding to your principles when that gets expensive. Kirk made command look exciting. Picard made it look like something you had to earn.

It is also the kind of leader I have tried to be. I look for people who are smarter than me and lean on them: I learn from them, I ask for their advice, and I actually listen to it. I don’t like rushing into decisions, even when there is pressure to. But once the call is mine, I make it, and the consequences are mine too. I didn’t learn all of that from a television show. Some of it, though, I learned from watching Picard long before I had a team of my own.

The two halves of Star Trek, the hopeful future and the captain at its center, belong together. A civilization built on exploration and cooperation can’t run on technology alone. It needs people who can hold power responsibly: who know that being right and being wise are different things, who can tell an enemy from someone they have simply failed to understand, and who defend their principles when it costs them something. Picard wasn’t just a resident of Roddenberry’s future. He was a portrait of the kind of person who could make it possible.

Stewart gave him that. The voice, the stillness, the way he paused before answering, gave Picard an authority that never had to be raised. He made thoughtfulness compelling and restraint look like courage, in a genre where it would have been far easier to let the captain win another space battle.

Some days it’s hard to hold on to the optimism I felt as a kid. We are technologically closer to that future than I ever expected, and in other ways painfully far from it. Old divisions persist, new ones appear, and cooperation feels more fragile than it should. It would be easy to call Roddenberry naive.

I don’t think he was. Star Trek never mattered because it predicted where we would end up. It mattered because it gave us somewhere worth going. A future like that doesn’t arrive on its own. It’s a direction you choose, and then keep choosing.

As a child, Star Trek made me believe we would reach the stars. Picard taught me, slowly, that reaching them was never the point. What mattered was who we would become on the way.

We have come a long way toward the stars. I hope we haven’t given up on becoming worthy of them.

Thank you, Sir Patrick.

Make it so.